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“A modern Madonna struggling with domestic life,” per Dirt Femme’s official album visualizer.

”It’s about never wanting marriage, not wanting children, and not feeling like that’s a life that I want. But then like, “What if I do?” All of my friends around me have kids—babies are adorable and I’m so happy for my friends—but whenever I say “I still don’t know if I want kids,” they take it so personally and get really offended by me saying that. Having a kid is a personal choice, isn’t it? When you live in a very woke bubble that I’m in with my friends who live very different lives, it’s not a big deal. But as soon as I move slightly outside of that, there’s a judgment cloud if you choose not to have children.

— via Rolling Stone

”My husband and I both had fairly traditional childhoods, and I’ve always a certain amount of confusion around my lifestyle—friends and family wondering when we’ll stop partying and settle down. In 2020, we eloped in Las Vegas, and the reaction was pretty uniform, like, ‘Oh, thank god, you did something normal! So when are you having kids?’ People seem to have this idea about how our life is supposed to look, and if that idea doesn’t appeal to you, it makes your head spin. You’re like, ‘Is there something wrong with me?’ We made a beat that sounded sad and upbeat at the same time, and it reminded me of the Stepford Wives—that eerie feeling you get in suburbia that everyone is hiding something.”

– via Apple Music (October 14, 2022)

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